Don't you ever get tired of how annoyed you are?
OK, so maybe we should just be a little more honest — there are things about other people that are at the very least annoying, especially the more we get to know them. But, that’s hardly the point, is it?
Because there are also many things, about other people, that are fascinating and inspiring and attractive…and worth loving. No one ever said it would be just one or the other.…just like that’s not the case with yourself.
It’s not too hard to fantasize about all the hassles that could be avoided by not having to live around other people. But it is also true that significant parts of you would not only be underdeveloped, but also deformed without the benefits of engagement with other people (hassles included). What, for example, would you know about love? What about the enjoyment of things that you simply can’t create exclusively from yourself? What about the beauty and joy related to the nature of harmony?
Being annoyed is allowed. But, despite the current popularity of righteous-indignation, just don't let things like annoyance and controversy become the primary food-groups of your daily emotional, psychological diet.
People are a hassle sometimes. So am I (you, too, by the way...). That's not the point.