It is strangely observable that there is nearly always an appeal to look at things through a lens of victimhood.
At one point or another, your life gets focused on what you can give back to the world — the sooner the better, of course (but, hey, such things can take time, for all kinds of reasons).
Among other things, learning is a key ingredient to our mental health — perhaps because of what it requires of us…like willingness, curiosity, adaptability, humility.
What If…we are so preoccupied with managing the tweaks and adjustments we think we can make in our lives, that we never really avail ourselves to the adjusting nature of the Spirit of God within us?