It’s very hard (impossible?) to react and listen (at the same time).
Our most recent experience of something tends to overshadow our historically experienced one … but, never fully.
Your ego is your default control-mechanism — the more you feed it, though, the greater your illusion about that control becomes (not to mention the illusion it creates about yourself).
People often do things because of the way it makes them feel — what else would explain why would you wear a shirt like that?
Prior 3 Observations & A Question….