I’ve noticed…that the defects I think I see in other people often times seem unapparent to them.
Accordingly, some of mine must not be apparent to me.
And, so, I first have to note that this is likely.
I've also noticed that I tend to forgive myself more for the things I don’t see in me ("that's just me"), than I do with others for what they don’t see in themselves (well, then, "that's just them").
I have to note this, too.
Besides, keeping track of such things is such unsatisfying business — the only satisfying feature of it is having to do more of it, which....