I've noticed...when someone adds a little something extra to what they're doing, it moves me.
Recently, I saw someone do this on a piano and I was surprised by how much it affected me. It was not meant to draw attention to the person playing the instrument; it was just meant to add something to the situation going on—nothing particularly necessary, just a little extra flair.
Something attractive happens when people add a part of themselves in this way.
We all have the chance to add our flair to things. And, I think we need to because when we do, it awakens something in ourselves, and in others.
You don't need to do this everywhere or every time; just find one thing and add your unique flair to it, especially when you just want to.
In all flairness, it is one of your gifts to the world.