Another lingering reflection, on a recent I'm Wondering...:
I'm wondering...about how we orient ourselves to face the future.
For one thing, how am I thinking about the future relative to how I thought about it in my 20s seems quite different. Obviously, the time-table has changed and that seems to affect things. When I was younger, my sense of 'my whole life in front of me' would often take the pressure off something. As I age, I would describe that pressure as shifting. I'm increasingly focused on a shorter term (like a window is closing — which relieves things in some ways, but adds things in other ways).
Another feature of how we orient to the future seems to be related to fear. I've noticed that fear in older people seems to increasingly dominate their perspective about the future. I've said I won't let that happen to me. But, I suspect I am a bit naive (if not arrogant) about that assertion (even if I don't watch FOX News).
And, then, there's the nexus of my own personal, little world and that of the larger collective that continues to evolve over time. How does what my grandparents remember about 'when they grew up' assimilate with what we're experiencing now in terms of things like social and environmental issues, politics, technology, and our sense of meaning in life? How does what my grandparents faced as children and what my grandchildren will face affect how I view things today?
Like it or not, a lot of the time, how I view things today is psychologically impacted by my sense of the future. Are we progressing or are we retreating? Gaining ground or losing it? Is the future bright with possibility and betterment or beset by the inevitability of dystopia?
So, in all of this, what do I turn to for a sense of my bearings? What gives me healthy perspective about the future? How does my perspective of the future inform what I focus on today (or, is it the other way around)?
Is the future just an abyss waiting for all of us to just fall into? Or, does it largely resemble the present evolution of the past (even as it is changing)? Is what I am really grasping at whether or not anything (or anyone) has control of the future…of where things are headed?
As much as things change, they also stay (largely) the same. Or, at least, the basics do. The sun rises every day. Gravity is always there. Air to breath is a given. Most days, we get up and do our thing — eat (by the way, a helpful way to do that...here), work, clean, etc. Sure we have nicer clothes, indoor plumbing and climate controlled temperature, the ability to communicate and entertain ourselves at unprecedented levels, to fly nearly anywhere in the world now (whereas before, many people never traveled out of their own community), not to mention outer-space. But how much has that capability altered the essential nature of my existence — of what matters most in any given moment?
In other words, what will be is more like what it has always been. If that is true, then most of my future is related to today — to what I do today. If nothing else, the past demonstrates that. And, that is a significant part of how I can face the future...today.
...not to mention the wisdom and faith I benefit from every day from those who have gone before me (both recently and long ago).









